I have been thinking about my marriage and what has made it survive. I even created an itty bitty Tidbits of Experience for Marriage Bliss eBook this past weekend. However, by no means does this book cover all of the things that I feel lead to a marriage of bliss.
I shared this post on my personal Facebook page, and felt compelled to add more to it today.
He picked me flowers the other day just out of the blue and gave them to me. I was so touched by it because it’s been a long time since he’s given me flowers. He use to shower me with roses every time he got a paycheck. I have roses all over my house from him in many forms and fashions. I have treasured every one of them.
I’m going to brag some more on him. He strives to make our marriage survive. He’s changed many things about himself that I didn’t like when we were dating. He has quit smoking, drinking, and has stopped interacting with some people who I felt was not a good influence on our relationship. I’ve not managed to make even half of the changes within myself that I know he’d love to see happen.
However, I was reading a post about healing ears. All I could think about was the fact that Del has wonderful healing ears. He has always been a remarkable listener. He chooses his words very carefully too when we have our heart to heart talks.
I had a person comment that they wanted to know how to get their wife to wear lingerie. I have to say that when Del shows me his love for me, it makes me want to do those special things for him. I want to look sexy for him, and I know he loves it when I wear lingerie. I picture all of the little things I can do to make him as happy as he makes me. My simple answer is to love her with all you have. Find her love language and actually use it to make her know you love her for her. When you do that like my husband does so well, then wives are more inclined to do the things you love. It’s easy to love someone who loves you completely.
I want to hear you brag on your spouse. What do they do that makes you happy?