Do you and your partner sometimes find that your relationship has become stagnant? Sometimes when you get comfortable with one another, it can lead to you missing out on the old romance that brought you together in the first place.
The longer we spend in a committed relationship, the easier it becomes to fall into the habit of combining our everyday routine with our once-in-a-lifetime romance. These days, we’re more likely to share a quick acknowledgment before work rather than a goodbye kiss, or a marathon of movies has become the only form of a date night. It isn’t easy to keep the chemistry alive.
If you’re looking to spice up your love life, you can do a few little things to put the spark back into the fire. Small gestures to show you both still care really do make a difference. Take a look at these three suggestions in how you can spice up your relationship and love life.
Get intimate again
Actions are greater than words. To relive the honeymoon phases with your other half again, you need to make sure that you find ways to get intimate with one another again. Engaging in intimate moments such as holding hands or snuggling while talking in bed, will reinforce to one another how you feel and also feel loved in return.
As for your sex life, why not step out of your comfort zones and try something different, such as going to adult store together? One of the best ways to spice things up in the bedroom is by introducing some sex toys to the equation. Buy some whips, handcuffs, a powerful vibrating wand massager for foreplay, or whatever you both fancy. And ladies, don’t feel like you’ll miss out! Sex toys for women are common everywhere these days. Just buying them together will already spice up your relationship!
Unplug from your phone
How often have you gone to bed, only for you both to sit on your phones all night? Our phones are both our best friend and our worst distraction. Nothing is more impersonal than telling your significant other about your day, only for them to respond occasionally while scrolling through their phone.
To avoid this lasting impact on your relationship, make it a goal to detach yourselves from technology. Try spending some quality personal time together away from the screen of your handheld device. It may only seem like a small action, but it will make a lasting impact and large connection between you that you might have felt was fading away.
Make time for one another
The world of modern-day dating can be hard. Our lives are much more hectic nowadays, so you and your partner must make time for one another. We all have work, hobbies, and friends to deal with daily, but you must ensure that your other half is included on the list. If you live together, it can sometimes be easy to think you’re already spending time with them, but is it quality time?
Make an effort by arranging weekly dates, where both of you go out and do something together. This can be a romantic dinner in a restaurant, watching a movie at the cinema together, or even just a walk around your local park. Reigniting the spark in a relationship often involves engaging in activities that remind the brain and body of the lustful phase of love that you both shared when you started dating.